Reply:wtF?.. this teacher sure has a lotta balls… you should just treat him as a teacher. Talk to/Look at him when you need to. A teacher like that… check dat.. any teacher.. is not worth stressing yourself over.
Reply:my advice is don't.
he had good intentions. ok, he's not the best pyschologogist or "put myself in other people's shoes" type of guy, but he had good intentions.
Reply:he came over to me and told me that i shouldnt eat too much chocolate. he said it was bad for my skin and that it was making me a bit chunky….. he sat by me and told me to drink more water.
Who is he? Your nutrionist? Your dermatologist? You should have told him, in a civil manner of course, that it was not his place to give such advice. Much worse, because the info he gave you was incorrect.
I learned that chocolate doesn't cause acne and that drinking water doesn't remove your acne. You should educate yourself.
i know this is mean, but this person probably affected me the most, well other than my parents.
Don't let him anymore. If you want to avoid confrontation, see the head of his department or the Guidance. For sure, they'd deal with him.
But I don't think avoiding him is the solution. Ignoring the problem only worsens it. See what happened when you tried to ignore him after Valentine's, but it didn't solve it. Right?
One more thing, get a revenge. It's worth it. He deserves. Though if he didn't mean to hurt you or he wasn't aware that he was insulting you, then forgive him (that's why you need to talk to him, to know the reason why he did it)
Though I think he meant it. But putting everyone else down, including you, he puts himself up. That's the reason why many people insult others. They are insecure with their looks. So if he put you down and made you feel ugly, then he'd feel good that he's superior.
Trust me on this one. I used to do it all the time. And I didn't even know that I was hurting those around me, until someone told me and until I reflected. So TELL HIM THAT HE'S PUTTING YOU DOWN. REALLY. DO TELL.
Revenge, I wouldn't call it that. That's too harsh. How about teaching a teacher a lesson? Do stare at his bald head, and make him learn how hurtful this kind of thing. Good luck.
Reply:Please, please don't do this to him. I know he's been horrible to you and you're left feeling really frustrated and upset…but you even said already that he is really sensitive about his baldness. He obviously gets upset when people make a deal of his lack of hair. As someone who has acne and can understand what it feels like to have a physical-imperfection, you sureley wouldn't want to MAKE someone feel as upset as you do.
The purpose of his comments, it seems, is not necessarily to have a go at you. You have acne and he is trying to help (possibly). Perhaps this teacher just isn't very intelligent and doesn't realise that just bringing up the topic is offensive…even if his purpose is to help/provide advice.
However, if you were to stare at his head, your purpose would be to deliberately inflict emotional pain. Really think about what you are doing.
There are better ways to make yourself feel better. Draw pictures of him looking terrible (just for yourself though), change lyrics to songs so that they are about him and his bald head and humm them to yourself, or just tell us about him on this site…
None of these (so long as he doensn't know about them) will make him feel worse…but they could make you feel better….
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July 12th, 2010 
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